Hadi's Off to a New Adventure

Actually - Hadi has had many adventures before this one. 

Many years ago he moved to a new country and had to make new friends. It was not easy for him, and before he could fully adjust, COVID hit and he had to stay inside for two years! When COVID restrictions were lifted and it was safe to be outside again, physical classes resumed and off to school he went, until his graduation from the sixth grade in June 2025. 

In July 2025, he moved back home and with the help of his grandmother, got enrolled into a new school and stayed with his grandparents for while, while waiting for me to finish my work assignment in a different country. Even with his pelat Bahasa Melayu, he readjusted himself well, Alhamdulillah. 

And now, he entered secondary school, in a boarding school no less.

Just one month in and I have never seen him so happy, so confident and so fulfilled. This little baby of mine has grown into a remarkable young teen — sure of himself, clear about what he wants, and unafraid to speak his mind. He is disciplined and resourceful too. He taught himself how to solve the Rubik’s Cube and picked up calisthenics on his own. In fact, since February 2026, calisthenics has been all he talks about.

Adik, 

This is where you will be for the next five years. Please make full use of your time there - you have been given the opportunity to be among the best, so give it your best. Work hard, but play hard too. 

I have high hopes for you, both you and Abang, but more than anything, I just want you to do your best. The rest we leave to Allah to bless you with what He knows is best. We put in the hard work and let Allah take care of the rest. 

I am always proud of you, and will always be. 

Love, 
Mami 





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