That Phase is Over for You, Lady
Ach and I were talking about my modern-mom sister who is sooo okay and buddy-buddy with her 16-yo son's girlfriend. Yep. He's sixteen. And she's fifteen. w00t! I said, damn my sister is such a sport, she even let that girl datang rumah hari-hari belajar utk PMR with her son. And that girl's mom even paid my nephew to teach her daughter. Right. So I said I hope I'll be that cool with Kimi's girlfriend (?!).
Then we talked about my other nephew, he's 17. My sister made him break-up with his girlfriend on the phone (with the speakers on) in front of her and her husband. Nampak macam tak cool pulak kan? Sebab my nephew ni nak SPM, that's why. So the girlfriend was like... "Kenapa you ni, I love you, you jangan la buat I macam ni.. I sayang you!"
Note: the girl is 17. Matang betul budak2 sekarang.
Then the conversation between ach and I went like this:
Ach: Kalau awak, awak rasa apa?
Ajan: Of course la saya rasa sangat sedih! Boyfriend saya break up dengan saya!
Ach: Honey, I was asking you, kalau awak jadi kakak awak, awak rasa apa. Bukan kalau awak jadi budak 17 tahun tu!
Ajan: Oh.
Yes. Sometimes I forgot that I'm a married lady with one kid. That break-up-dengan-boyfriend phase does not apply to me anymore. That got me thinking, mannn, I'm in a new phase of life. Sudah tua! No more "eh, jejaka itu hensem la, i rasa dia syok kat I. Ee sukanya!" but "I nak anak I jadi apa ye bila besar nanti".
Haih. Sedar2 laaa ajan anda sudah tua. =D
Then we talked about my other nephew, he's 17. My sister made him break-up with his girlfriend on the phone (with the speakers on) in front of her and her husband. Nampak macam tak cool pulak kan? Sebab my nephew ni nak SPM, that's why. So the girlfriend was like... "Kenapa you ni, I love you, you jangan la buat I macam ni.. I sayang you!"
Note: the girl is 17. Matang betul budak2 sekarang.
Then the conversation between ach and I went like this:
Ach: Kalau awak, awak rasa apa?
Ajan: Of course la saya rasa sangat sedih! Boyfriend saya break up dengan saya!
Ach: Honey, I was asking you, kalau awak jadi kakak awak, awak rasa apa. Bukan kalau awak jadi budak 17 tahun tu!
Ajan: Oh.
Yes. Sometimes I forgot that I'm a married lady with one kid. That break-up-dengan-boyfriend phase does not apply to me anymore. That got me thinking, mannn, I'm in a new phase of life. Sudah tua! No more "eh, jejaka itu hensem la, i rasa dia syok kat I. Ee sukanya!" but "I nak anak I jadi apa ye bila besar nanti".
Haih. Sedar2 laaa ajan anda sudah tua. =D
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aahkan..cube lak ko feel anak ko dah kawen.mcmne kite rase kat menantu kite erk? agak2 kita jeles tak kat menantu kita nnt?
Best baca ni..:)
Lyn
aku pon tak le nak imagine la camne nnt bile anak aku da reti nak berchenta2 ni..huu...
dah la budak skang ni mmg advance2 belaka..
hati muda tak pe.. ehehehe
tapi kalau my son nanti (haih...), gf kena go thru mummy's screening dulu.. ekekeke